30 Day Conversation Challenge
Okay y’all… do you have conversation with your spouse? Let me re-phrase that, do you have intentional, deep, soul enriching conversation with your spouse? Do you long for that? Below is a 30 day challenge to get the two of you talking. And I mean real talking. Not the latest scores of a game, not each other’s schedules for the week, not even asking about each other’s day just to be answered with “good”.
Let’s create conversation! Some of the questions below will be uncomfortable. Others will make you feel goofy. But marriage thrives on vulnerability, trust and transparency. Commit to taking the time to ask each other one question a day for the next 30 days. And remember, when we feel safe and listened to when talking about the little things, the big things are much easier to bring up. These questions will draw you closer as a couple emotionally, physically, spiritually, and who knows, you just may be surprised by what you learn about your beloved!
Day 1: In what ways could I better meet your needs in our intimate life? (Michael told me to put this one first ☺️)
Day 2: What is the strongest part of our relationship?
Day 3: Tell me about one person who has made the biggest influence on your life and why.
Day 4: What has been your biggest let down in life? How has this impacted your life today?
Day 5: How could I encourage you in your spiritual walk?
Day 6: If you have an all paid vacation anywhere in the world, where would you go and who would you take with you?
Day 7: How has our relationship changed since dating?
Day 8: What’s you’re biggest headache you’re dealing with right now?
Day 9: What is something you love about our relationship?
Day 10: What is something thats been said to you that has always stayed in your mind?
Day 11: If you could pursue any career knowing you would be okay financially, what would you pursue?
Day 12: Where do you see us in 5 years?
Day 13: What is the nicest thing I have ever done for you?
Day 14: In what ways do I romance you?
Day 15: What has been the most embarrassing moment in your life?
Day 16: Tell me about your most impactful spiritual experience?
Day 17: What do I do that makes you laugh?
Day 18: What has been your biggest accomplishment in life? How has this affected you?
Day 19: What is your best trait? Your worst?
Day 20: What was your favorite memory from when we dated?
Day 21: What legacy do you want to leave when you die?
Day 22: What is your biggest pet peeve?
Day 23: What has been the funniest memory in our marriage?
Day 24: What can I do to better pursue you?
Day 25: What is your favorite scripture? Why?
Day 26: Describe the perfect day off work.
Day 27: In what ways do I encourage you the best?
Day 28: When did you last cry? What were you crying about?
Day 29: Do you feel emotionally cherished in our marriage?
Day 30: How can I pray for you?
You did it!
Do you feel closer?
Did you open the door for more communication in your marriage?
One more challenge- sit down with your spouse and make a list of things you want to accomplish, see or try by your next mile marker anniversary. Have fun! Drop us a comment below or via email letting us know you taken on the challenge!
Wanna keep the communication going? Check out this blog post!
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